Women are constantly testing us. I really believe that. Children test you to see how far they can go, and women are the same. Being with children can teach you a lot about how you should be with a woman. As soon as you give in, you lose. You’ve failed the test. Any psychiatrist will tell you that. Because if you’re willing to give in now, then you’ve just demonstrated that you’ll also give in later. Once you’ve set an example of something, it’s too late. If you give in now you’re making your life more difficult later on. I’m tough with kids, but they love me. My son’s friends love me; I’m like the Pied Piper. Why? Because the rules aren’t hard to follow when I live by them also.

When I wanted my son to learn how to skate, I learned skating too. That’s why I can’t understand it when I see other parents yelling at their kids and forcing them to learn how to skate when they’re not even willing to learn it themselves. I see that all the time now that I have kids. Ignorant parents that push their children to succeed at things and aren’t even willing to get on that ice and fall on their own asses. Those bruises keep me from being a hypocrite.

You need to be in control but not controlling. When I was still dating, sometimes women would start to have a hissy fit, saying things like, “It’s always your way!” And I would say, “I’m glad you remember the rules.” It’s my direction in life and I don’t care what they say. I know what I want in my life, and I know myself better than they do. My life is not a democracy.

During a prostitution sting in Miami in the late 1990s, I remember reading about a questionnaire they gave all of the hundred or so johns they arrested. In the survey one of the questions is what is your reason for seeking a sex provider? The overwhelming answer was their wives would orally or anally pleasure them. Now folks that’s just sad these guys don’t have the balls to say suck my dick the way I like it or all find a women who will. If you can’t see yourself saying this to a woman read the chapter YOU’VE BEEN CONDITIONED TO BE A PUSSY twice.

Remember control takes work. Once you have lost control don’t email me asking me how to regain control just find another girl.

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