Now, every once in a while, and especially as you learn to develop this attitude, a woman might tell you that she loves you. And if you say, “I love you too”, then you’re fucked! You might as well chop off your dick and hand it to her. Remember: He who loves least controls the relationship.

I have only said, “I love you” to two women in my life. I married them both. I tell them, “I’ll tell you that I love you when I’m putting a ring on your finger.” When you set precedence you have to stick to your guns. If you tell her no, then later on for whatever reason you allow her, she will view you as weak. Give them an inch and they will take a mile. Stop making excuses and stop making exceptions. When you set a precedence you can’t go back.

One of the big diseases that happen to men that are in a relationship is laziness. You have to do what YOU want relentlessly. You cannot give in ever. They want the strength and they will love you for it. You always have to be on top of the situation. What happens to most guys is that once they fuck her, they doze off. They get lazy.

It’s the same thing with meeting them. The follow through is important. Now, when she steers the conversation toward sex for example, I’ll say something like, “You seem to have sex on your mind more than I do.” Or I’ll say, “I don’t want to talk about sex right now.” When she asks why, I’ll say, “Because I only like talking about sex when I know I’m going to be getting some.” Now when she brings up sex again I know I’ve got her! You always want to lead the conversation right from the beginning.

I like to tell them that maybe we won’t get that far (sex). Because after I get to know her, I may not want sex from her. I tell women that I’m not sure if I want to sleep with them yet, I tell them, “We’ll see–let me get to know you first.” Don’t they do that to us? I’m just doing what they do. When you tell a woman that you don’t know if you want to sleep with her, she will love your confidence.

Women want a confident guy who knows what he wants.

When you have stables, when you have 4 or 5 girlfriends at once, Valentine’s Day can be a real bitch because they all want to be with you on Valentine’s Day. I used to give them all the same card. I went out and bought a box of Valentine’s Day cards and they were all exactly alike. And if I was still with a woman the next year, I gave her the exact same card again. Sometimes they would complain and I’d say, “Can you imagine how hard I looked to find the exact same card, because it’s the only card that can adequately express how I feel about you.” Hey, I’m a romantic guy! I’m not lying. I said, “Can you imagine?” I don’t lie, but I don’t reveal everything either.

I give them the menu, and they can choose from the menu. I’m not going to change my menu for anyone. It’s my menu. If I’m offering you meat, don’t ask me for a pastry. Go to the pastry chef if that’s what you want. He’s cute!

He can’t give you what I can give you, but he’s cute. I think there’s a lot more women out there who want what’s on my menu. There are a lot of dishes on my menu that a lot of guys don’t have.

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